Yesterday was a day of celebration and sadness. One of my sisters-in-law passed away recently and we were having a family gathering to honor her life and our memories of her. We spent a few moments along the dunes of Lake Michigan and spread her ashes there because it was a setting that she would have approved of and appreciated. Pat was the third oldest in a family of eight children. Her husband and only son survive her as well as all of her brothers and sisters.
Pat was a unique person – quite the character. She did like to talk a lot and I have to admit that at times she drove me crazy. However, above all, she was a good person. A true friend. She loved life and tried to enjoy every minute of it. The littlest things would bring her joy and a smile on her face. She always seemed to see the positive in a given situation. If there was someone in the room with a smile or having a laugh, more than likely it was Pat. Even in the end, she still carried that positive attitude. I didn’t know her as well as some of my brothers-in-law because we lived at opposite ends of the country most of the time. She was always pretty much game for anything and willing to go along with whatever others wanted to do. When we did visit her, she always made us feel welcome. While she lived in California, she especially enjoyed taking us through the wine country and visiting the vineyards and tasting rooms. She really enjoyed her wines.
Pat was a very unique person in her own special way. She made friends easily and would do anything for you. I wish I had appreciated her more when she was still around. I’m sure that for those who were closest to her, she will be sorely missed. However, I’m sure they’ll have a few good smiles and laughter when they recall their memories of being with her. We will all miss her.
Farewell, Pat!
